I’m tired…aren’t you
Tired of trying so hard.
Tired of trying to do it all. And trying to do it perfectly.
There is so much pressure on women today. Pressure to be the perfect mom, to have the perfect body, to eat organic, to perform well at work, to keep our husbands happy, to entertain our kids, to finally get the clothes out of the hamper, to clean the house, to drive kids to practice, to get to the gym more than once a week…
The list is endless! We can’t do it all.
Do you feel this too?
The pressure to do all these things and do them well enough to please everyone–and look good on Instagram!
Our culture puts so much pressure on us. We are exhausted and overwhelmed most of the time. I don’t think this is how God meant our lives to go.
I just want to be free. To breathe. To not have to perform. And to not have to be perfect.
Do you know what I mean?
I grew up with a perfectionist father. He was constantly pointing out what I did wrong. Even little details. I don’t think he meant it to hurt me; it was maybe just his way to help me become better. But the result was that I became anxious and fearful of making a mistake. I strived for perfection in every area of my life. It was exhausting.
Perfectionism is like that. Exhausting.
Do you know why?
Because it’s impossible.
Perfection is impossible this side of heaven.
So this crazy push for perfectionism–to be that perfect “does it all” woman–it’s just that: crazy.
And it will drive you insane. And it will fill you with anxiety. And it will steal your peace and joy.
Perfectionism is a form of pride. It seeks its own glory. But the Bible tells us we should do everything for God’s glory (1 Cor. 10:31).
Perfectionism gets me caught up in comparing myself with others and becoming too focused on how I look. In 1 Samuel 16:17 it says that God looks at the heart of a person, not the outside. And in Philippians 3 we learn to be content with what we have and who we are.
Perfectionism leads to shame when we feel like we don’t measure up. But God tells us we are forgiven and clean if we have trusted Jesus as our Savior.
Perfectionism looks at me and what I do or don’t do. God wants me to look at Him.
“Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.”Psalm 34:5.
Look at Him, friend.
Stop looking at Instagram and Facebook and the Kardashians. Look at Jesus.
You can breathe. You are free. Rest. Relax.
You don’t have to do it all. And you especially don’t have to be perfect.
In 2 Corinthians chapter 12 it says that God is strong when we are weak. You have his strength to lean on. He made you. He loves you. You and I are not perfect. But we are growing and learning and living in His strength.
We are perfectly imperfect.
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